Hello again, It's been awhile since I posted anything. Today's topic that I will be talking about is letting go.
Letting Go can be describe by types of letting go,but what i'm more keen and interested to talk about is accepting rejection/letting go from someone you like who doesn't have the same feelings for you and how to let go someone you like.
I'll first talk about "How to let go of people who you're not interested in." If you wanna let go of someone or in other words reject them,please be in mind not to hurt them too badly,I know it will hurt but is best to not let the opposite faction hurt so bad. Tell him/her that you're not interested,tell him/her that their not your type,but always try to keep in contact as in talk a little after the "letting go" part so the opposite faction will feel comfort.(Be in mind that if you comfort them please keep you distance and choose the appropriate words to comfort them or else they will fall for you again and get hurt badly again)
Now moving on to the accepting rejection part. To all the guys out there,if you have felt regrettable pain I know how you feel. To the girls out there also, i feel ya...
But to accept rejection takes a lot of guts. Don't think of it as a rejection,think of it as a chance for you to find someone better and learn from your mistakes.
P.S- I kinda wrote this quite short. sorry, cuz i weren't in the mood.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Handling break ups
Hello again everyone that is viewing my blog,I'm here again after a year of not writing anything,I finally return to share some new great stuff to help make your life much easier.
Today's topic,we will be discussing about breakups
one thing is that breakups could be hard to handle for some people,even i sometimes have a hard time too.First things first,we are going to talk about is how to handle a break up.To handle a break up,try to control yourself.Some people can't control their emotions and start to lose their mind.Just try to control.Second is that when a guy/ girl is trying to break up with you,try to reason out with him/her,ask him/her why are you doing this?,why are you breaking up with me?,something like that.Its ok if you don't want to reason with him/her...it's entirely up to you.
Another thing about breakup is how are you going to handle the aftermath.Handling isn't easy because no one is invulnerable to pain and I also don't recommend you to master break up afthermaths because if you do master breakup aftermaths you will we a painless guy/girl who will have no heart at all.OK..back to the topic.To handle break up aftermath,you will sure be very sad,feeling like wanna kill yourself,feeling angry when you see that person.Just remember to be calm...but if he/she breaks up with you for a stupid reason like if he/she breaks up with you for a guy/girl then that means he/she is stupid.After a break up and you are sad,do stuff that makes you happy,cheer yourself up.it maybe hard at first but you will be able to do it sooner or later.After I was dumped I could tell you that I was really really sad,it was hard for me to cheer up,my face was always frowning,but when you start to do something you like you will be happy I guarantee it.Another thing that can help cheer you up is your family and friends.My friends help cheered me up and my family also,you would be amazed what they could do!!!Always remember,if you have fun it will sure cheer you up because after a break up,you will be sad because you will think of that guy/girl,so by having fun you are constantly focused on one thing and you will forget about him.So after a break up,go do stuff that makes you happy or else it will take you a long time to recover from the break up.Sometimes it will even take you 5 months to forget about someone you loved before.
Remember...It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
If you need anymore help,those who know me have my number and you can always call me or SMS....
Cheers!!!
Today's topic,we will be discussing about breakups
one thing is that breakups could be hard to handle for some people,even i sometimes have a hard time too.First things first,we are going to talk about is how to handle a break up.To handle a break up,try to control yourself.Some people can't control their emotions and start to lose their mind.Just try to control.Second is that when a guy/ girl is trying to break up with you,try to reason out with him/her,ask him/her why are you doing this?,why are you breaking up with me?,something like that.Its ok if you don't want to reason with him/her...it's entirely up to you.
Another thing about breakup is how are you going to handle the aftermath.Handling isn't easy because no one is invulnerable to pain and I also don't recommend you to master break up afthermaths because if you do master breakup aftermaths you will we a painless guy/girl who will have no heart at all.OK..back to the topic.To handle break up aftermath,you will sure be very sad,feeling like wanna kill yourself,feeling angry when you see that person.Just remember to be calm...but if he/she breaks up with you for a stupid reason like if he/she breaks up with you for a guy/girl then that means he/she is stupid.After a break up and you are sad,do stuff that makes you happy,cheer yourself up.it maybe hard at first but you will be able to do it sooner or later.After I was dumped I could tell you that I was really really sad,it was hard for me to cheer up,my face was always frowning,but when you start to do something you like you will be happy I guarantee it.Another thing that can help cheer you up is your family and friends.My friends help cheered me up and my family also,you would be amazed what they could do!!!Always remember,if you have fun it will sure cheer you up because after a break up,you will be sad because you will think of that guy/girl,so by having fun you are constantly focused on one thing and you will forget about him.So after a break up,go do stuff that makes you happy or else it will take you a long time to recover from the break up.Sometimes it will even take you 5 months to forget about someone you loved before.
Remember...It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
If you need anymore help,those who know me have my number and you can always call me or SMS....
Cheers!!!
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